Archive for March, 2011

While there are a lot of people out there thinking they can handle swinging, swinger sex is not for everyone. This does not mean that you are a bad or boring person either. There are simply some people that cannot handle the emotional issues that may come along with swinging. You will need to make sure that you can handle a lot of feelings of jealousy and deal with trust issues before you can fully enjoy being able to be a swinger. This is especially true if you happen to be in a couple.

Issues with Jealousy

A person that is easily made jealous will more than likely not be able to enjoy being a swinger. Even if you are a single swinger you will begin to feel things for the people that you sleep with, this is natural and difficult to get around. This means that seeing a person that you just had sex with sleeping with somebody else can really end up getting your blood boiling. If you find yourself getting angry or hurt feelings as a swinger, then it is not for you.

Issues with Trust

If you have a lot of problems with trust, then swinging is probably not for you. If you have difficulties believing people and what they do when you are not around, then you will be more than likely miserable while swinging. You have to be able to trust the people that you swing with and know that they aren’t doing it to hurt you and that they have no reason to lie.