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While there are a lot of people out there thinking they can handle swinging, swinger sex is not for everyone. This does not mean that you are a bad or boring person either. There are simply some people that cannot handle the emotional issues that may come along with swinging. You will need to make sure that you can handle a lot of feelings of jealousy and deal with trust issues before you can fully enjoy being able to be a swinger. This is especially true if you happen to be in a couple.

Issues with Jealousy

A person that is easily made jealous will more than likely not be able to enjoy being a swinger. Even if you are a single swinger you will begin to feel things for the people that you sleep with, this is natural and difficult to get around. This means that seeing a person that you just had sex with sleeping with somebody else can really end up getting your blood boiling. If you find yourself getting angry or hurt feelings as a swinger, then it is not for you.

Issues with Trust

If you have a lot of problems with trust, then swinging is probably not for you. If you have difficulties believing people and what they do when you are not around, then you will be more than likely miserable while swinging. You have to be able to trust the people that you swing with and know that they aren’t doing it to hurt you and that they have no reason to lie.

A lot of people do not realize that swinging is actually more common with long term relationships. This is something that has a lot of reasons behind it. No matter how old you are and who you are with, after a certain amount of time you will usually get bored with the person that you are with. It is usually a good idea for you to be able to be open and honest with your partner about your feelings so that you can do something to change this.

Dull Relationships

It can be very easy for the sex life of a relationship to become dull overtime. This does not mean that either one of you are bad in bed, it could just mean that you know all the other’s tricks. This is why it is common for them to bring other people into the bedroom. You will find that swinging can be a cure almost to any type of dull relationship. Bringing the spark back into the relationship is exactly what people need to continue being happy with their partners.


You are going to be a lot more likely to trust a person after you have been with them for a long time. Trust is going to be a big part of swinging with a partner. If you do not trust your partner and you are swinging, then it is going to be an unpleasant experience for you both. However, when you trust them, then it can actually work very well to both of your advantages whenever you start swinging.